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How NOT to Scatter Ashes

April 1, 2014 urngarden.com

scattering ashes
scattering ashes

In 2013, a plastic bag with human ashes washed up on a South Florida shoreline. The unidentified remains were presumably scattered at sea but were disposed of in a fashion not normally associated with burial at sea. Instead, the non-biodegradable plastic bag in which they were stored kept the cremains in tact instead of being dispersed. Unfortunately, this seems to happen more often than not when families take it upon themselves to scatter their loved one’s ashes without proper instruction from a funeral director or crematory operator.

Why Water Burial?
Scattering a loved one’s ashes is becoming more commonplace in today’s society as families dismiss the concept that ground burial is the only option to consider when a person dies. As long as it’s allowed by federal, state and local laws, you can scatter your loved one’s remains in a variety of venues including a garden, under a favorite tree or shrub or even over his or her favorite ball field.

Scattering ashes over water is also quite typical these days. Water enthusiasts may prefer to have the cremains dispersed in the ocean or nearby lake. While this may be a simple way to scatter the ashes, many who do this believe the concept that life began in the sea so it’s best to return that life back. This is not only a humbling way to pay tribute to a deceased friend or family member, but it is also an environmentally friendly alternative to traditional ground burials.

A much less expensive option, ash scattering over water is usually held after the funeral or memorial service and is typically attended by immediate friends and family members, a clergy member and the vessel captain. Remaining friends and family can opt to view the scattering ceremony from the shore.

A classic example of how NOT to scatter ashes can be found in what we will refer to as the Lebowski method:

Biodegradable Scattering or Water Urns
If you are considering scattering or burying your loved one’s ashes in water, there are two types of cremation urns that should be used. You want a container that is easy to open when you are getting ready to scatter the ashes or an urn that is biodegradable should you decide to place the cremated remains in the water.

urn for scattering ashes over water
Journey Sea Burial Urn

These types urns typically float for a brief period time and will sink gracefully. They come in a variety of styles from tubes and sea shells to Grecian urns and balls of sand. Because they are biodegradable, they are typically made from recycled paper, sand, gelatin and rock salt.

Rock Salt Urn for Ashes
Rock Salt Urn for Ashes

Federal Rules and Regulations for Scattering Cremated Ashes
The Environmental Protection Agency oversees the federal rules on disposing of cremated remains. Individual states have their own regulations but often use the EPA rules as guidelines.

Under the EPA’s Clean Water Act, the ashes must be scattered at least three nautical miles from land and can only be done by boat or air. If you are using a non-biodegradable container, it must be disposed of separately and not placed in the water at all. Cremated remains are not allowed to be scattered at beaches or wading pools by water. Inland water burials require the applicable state permits.

All water burials must be reported in writing to the EPA within 30 days. Decomposable wreaths and flowers may be placed in the water at the time of ceremony.

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Discount Cremation Urns for Sale

December 19, 2012 urngarden.com

If you are shopping for the product that NO ONE wants to buy, you’ve come to the right place to find affordable cremation urns for ashes. Whether you plan a burial in the cemetery or scatter or spread the ashes you should be able to find an affordable memorial urn here. Many of the heavier metal styles are attractive enough to display in the home.

cheap urns for ashes

We’ve marked down many of our cremation urns in an answer to families who are searching for “cheap urns”. These urns are cheap only in price compared to the funeral home or other online retailers. These are secure, quality urns that are either overstocked, discontinued, or sales samples.

Popular styles are the brass mother of pearl and the golden engraved urn. These urns are the same styles that are sold in the funeral homes but are older styles that are being phased out.

mother of pearl discount cremation urn

We have several pages of discount urns and urns on sale, including our metal cremation urns with secure threaded lids, as well as the popular biodegradable tubes designed for scattering ashes.

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Scattering Mom’s Ashes At the Lake. Arizona or Alaska?

September 18, 2011 urngarden.com

vintage mother postcard

We’re of the age now, where we are dealing with aging parents and health issues.  Jerry just returned from Arizona after dealing with the death of his mother. He lives in Missouri, his sister lives in Alaska. He arranged a direct cremation and shipment of her ashes to Missouri. He and his sister will convene at Christmas and scatter her ashes, per mother’s request.

Jerry: I’ll come to Alaska at Christmas and we’ll scatter mom’s ashes at the lake. She told me that’s what she wanted.
Sis: Jerry! Mom hated Alaska, when did she tell you that?
Jerry: Probably 15 years ago.
Sis: Well, when she was here in July, she told me that she hated this place, and if she died to spread her ashes in Arizona.

Jerry’s mom had been ill and agreed to relocate to her daughter’s recently renovated home to let her care for her. That lasted about 3 weeks and after some pretty harsh words, his mother booked a flight back to AZ.

Growing up, Jerry and his sister lived all over the country with their mom. Home was a different place for each of them. Mother had liquidated her estate before leaving for Alaska, Jerry came home with her purse and a lock of hair.  Both kids are struggling with the way it all ended up and have decided to meet in Arizona later this year for a private memorial ash scattering on the water.

After Jerry returned to work he was in a marketing meeting and his co-workers expressed their condolences. The conversation turned to cremation versus burial. Everyone in the room agreed that they preferred cremation. This is in the bible belt, a traditional burial state.

This experience also spurred a first time conversation that Jerry had with his father about end of life.  Jerry’s dad chose Las Vegas as his final resting place, preferably in the Belagio fountain.

A Saginaw, MI newspaper recently took a poll to ask what readers if they preferred cremation over burial and overwhelmingly the response was a simple cremation.  The Wall Street Journal reported on a woman who scattered her husband’s ashes in over 12 locations. Whatever the decision is, have the conversation.

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Catholic Doctrine Rejects Scattering of Ashes

November 4, 2009 urngarden.com

stained glass window

ROME:

The Italian Bishops’ Conference is preparing to publish updated norms on funeral rites including cremation and the burial of ashes.

The manual, which will be reviewed and approved by the bishops’ conference in Assisi on November 9,  will explain that Catholic doctrine does not oppose cremation but rejects the practice of storing ashes of loved ones at home.  The document will stress that this is a violation of the work of mercy that obliges Catholics to provide a holy burial to the dead.

Keeping the ashes of the dead at home does away with the important rite of accompanying the deceased to the cemetery, “which unites the community of believers.”  Burying the ashes at a cemetery, the “place of the dead,” is what makes most sense, the bishops will add.

Scattering the ashes, according to the Italian bishops, is based on a pagan ritual that supposedly symbolized the union of the deceased with “the great soul of mother earth,” and is contrary to the Christian obligation, established by the Lord Jesus himself, to bury the dead.

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Keeping it on the Down Low: Ceremony for Spreading Ashes

September 23, 2009 urngarden.com

scattering ashes from the eiffel tower

Some families like to scatter ashes from way up high, this lady is releasing a keepsake amount of cremated ashes from the Eiffel Tower in Paris.

Or this undisclosed location:

scattering ashes ceremony

We prefer to keep it on the down low, whether spreading ashes on the ground or over the water:

spreading ashes ceremony

U.S. Navy photo by Lt. Gabriel Hernandez
U.S. Navy photo by Lt. Gabriel Hernandez

If you plan to spread the ashes on the ground, a shallow trench or groove can be dug in the soil or sand where the ashes can be placed. This process can be personalized by drawing out the person’s name or a heart shaped trench. Add candles or luminaries around the trench to create a spiritual ambiance and can be later used as a keepsake for those that attend.  Wildflower seeds and  tree plantings are another way to personalize the event. At the end of the ceremony, participants can either rake over the remains in the trench, or have the water from the ocean sweep the remains out to sea while family and friends join hands and remember the individual’s life.

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