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O Death, Where is Your Sting? Cremation Urns for Adults, Dogs, & Babies

June 26, 2025 urngarden.com Leave a Comment

This post could be called “Define a Bad Day”. The last few months have been a test not just for us personally and professionally, but also for our customers who are dealing with the grave task of preparing for the end of life of a loved one, or in the aftermath of picking up the pieces. Usually after one of these conversations, it puts everything in perspective.

The Nurse in Massachusetts

We heard from a nurse in Massachusetts who had outlived all four of her children and was buying an urn for the last surviving son. Although he was an adult, he was her youngest and was on Hospice and expected to die soon. This mother had endured another son who had drowned, a daughter dying unexpectedly in her sleep, and another died of cancer. Now she was faced with losing her last child after a sudden illness.

How does a parent survive this trauma? She told me that she has managed these devastating hits by doing outreach and counseling with other grieving parents. It brought her peace in knowing that she was comforting others. Conversations like this put my imaginary “bad day” in perspective.

Another customer in Massachusetts called to replace an urn that they had bought from Urn Garden several years ago for their dad. A house fire recently destroyed the property, but firefighters were able to retrieve the charred metal urn and deliver to the family. They planned to transfer the ashes into the new replacement urn.

It’s actually a good lesson on maybe why it’s not a good choice to store the urn in the home indefinitely. Whether it’s a catastrophic event, or the death of the caretaker, it might be worth exploring alternative and safer storage options.

Losing a Furry Friend

Another customer called on the way to the vet to put his dog down. He had a large breed in the backseat and urns for bigger dogs can be hard to find, unless you step up to a human adult size. He knew what he wanted and ordered it enroute to the vet’s office.

His dog had been suffering for a while and this event was scheduled, so the man knew it was coming and had time to prepare. He and his best friend had a special yet sad week, with his pet’s favorite treats and extra love and attention.

Teenage Suicide

Another mom called with an urgent need. She had lost her adult son to suicide a week ago. They ordered an urn on Amazon and it turned out to be a disaster. The memorial service was on Monday and she wanted the urn present at the funeral. He loved the lake and in addition to the gorgeous sunset, the urn had his favorite shades of blue and black.

The family chose this color palette for the celebration of life service. Mother and friends created a beautiful floral wreath using blue and black flowers to frame the urn. It turned out nice and saved money.

The title of this post was inspired by a customer who requested the verse be inscribed on an adult urn. I was intrigued and discovered that it was biblical and can be found in 1 Corinthians 15:55. “O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?”

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What the Catholic Church Says About Cremation, Burial, and Funeral

November 8, 2023 urngarden.com

celtic cross grave stone

In 1963 the Vatican allowed cremation and this practice has been part of Church law since 1983.

Catholics believe that when death occurs, the soul meets God, and God gives perfect life to bodies by reuniting them with their souls. The body must be present at the funeral, and there’s more:

Cremains Must Remain Intact (the whole body)

The ashes may not be scattered over land water, or divided among family members and friends. That means cremation jewelry or keepsakes for families that want to retain a portion of the cremated remains are forbidden.

When people put ashes in a necklace, “You’re treating the deceased as if it is a possession of yours. You don’t possess people.” says Father Patrick Carrion, a priest for more than 40 years.

In December 2023, the Vatican published a note signed by Cardinal Víctor Fernández and approved by the Pope, stating that family members could place “a minimal part of the ashes” to kept in a sacred place. This was in an effort to clear up confusion regarding cremation and the handling and storage of ashes.

Couples that want their ashes co-mingled should speak to their priests for clarification. Some Catholic cemeteries provide a “sacred” space designated for preservation of the ashes of those that want to be together for eternity.

Urns Don’t Belong in the Home

This question comes up often, but the Church believes that Cremation urns must be buried or interred in a mausoleum or columbarium and NOT kept in the home.

Eulogies at the Funeral

Eulogies are not part of the funeral Mass and should occur at the wake. “That’s not what our ritual is meant to be” says Fr. Carrion. If the family insists on eulogies at the Mass, Fr. Carrion sets a limit of two eulogies that are each five minutes in length and will be delivered before the body enters the church.

Regarding burials, embalming the body, and using sealed caskets and concrete vaults are fine. Natural green burials that are environmentally friendly are also Church approved.

Other methods that involve treating and dissolving the body with chemicals, called “composting” are unacceptable and legal in only seven states.

Read the complete article here:

Here’s another article for more information on other religious views on cremation.

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Is Amazon Really A Good Place to Buy a Cremation Urn for Ashes?

July 11, 2023 urngarden.com

This will be a short post based on our experience, and if you want to go deeper on the position we take regarding these shopping platforms, you can read this article we wrote a couple years ago.

Is Amazon, Walmart, and Etsy really a good place to buy a cremation urn? We think not and here’s why:

Our view hasn’t changed and it’s not because we have a website that sells urns. In the past, we listed our beautiful urns for sale on Amazon and Etsy.

That all changed during Covid though. We closed our Amazon and Etsy store to focus on our primary site urngarden.com to deliver the level of service that our customers deserve during a stressful time. Supply chain issues and staffing problems were affecting retailers and we did not want the added complication of being at the mercy of a 3rd party platform.

We want to be the first point of contact if you have an issue with an urn that you purchased from us.

Lately, we are getting several calls from customers that make a purchase on Amazon or Etsy and discover that the item they assumed was in stock and expected to arrive in a couple of days is actually coming from India or China and will be several weeks getting here.

Unanswered emails and poor communication with the seller leaves the customer rattled and confused. You don’t need that anxiety. We put our contact information in plain sight if you have questions or comments.

In a customer service world of bots and automated emails, there is a definite LACK of customer service. Often, when customers call, they sometimes express surprise that a human answers the phone. That’s not to say that you won’t get a voice mail occasionally when you call us. If that happens, it’s because the line is busy, or it’s after hours, but we WILL call you back, or personally reply to your email and respond in a timely manner.

We appreciate your business, value your feedback, and wish you peace.

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Types of Cremation Urns that Families Buy Pt. 2

June 1, 2023 urngarden.com

Bluebird Cremation Urn and Keepsake

With so many types of cremation urns on the internet and at the funeral home, it can be so overwhelming to pick one out. Here’s a few selections that our customers made and the stories behind them.

The blue bird cremation adult urn and the little mini bluebird keepsake urn was the choice a customer in Michigan picked for her brother. She was letting him stay at her place, where he eventually died on her couch. She knew he was ill, but she also knew that he would not allow her to nurse him and had no idea how sick he really was.

He was asleep on the couch when she went to bed and still there when she got home from work the next day. He never moved and she questioned whether he was dead when she went to bed the night before.

Urns for Two People

A California family decided it was time to buy a companion urn for the parents. Dad had died 25 years ago and Mother had passed in the last 2 years. They wanted a container that the ashes could be co-mingled and have room for the family pet.

The wanted a box shape, and many of the double sized urns have a divider to separate the ashes, so this narrowed our choices. In addition to a specific style, they planned to bury the urn in a cemetery on the opposite side of the country. This required coordinating the logistics as they preferred not to board the plane with an urn and 3 sets of ashes.

Often, this family vacations in Hawaii and has already told their adult children, that they want their ashes scattered there.

In New Jersey, another family was shopping for an urn for their parents who wanted to be together forever. They were married for 70 years and died 6 months apart. The whole family lived in the same neighborhood, on the same block. There was lots of help when it came time to clean out the parents’ home, who had accumulated several generations of family heirlooms and artifacts.

They were an immigrant family who loved America and served in the military. While working on the estate, they found service medals and a flag from France, belonging to an uncle who had been killed at Normandy. The parents will be interred in a veteran’s cemetery with full military honors.

Motorcycle Urn

In Texas, a lady was helping her uncle pick out his urn as he neared the end of his life. He loved cars and motorcycles, and the old Route 66 ran right through their town. We debated on the proper pronunciation of “route” or “root”. Our Route 66 motorcycle urn was a perfect choice for him.

Beach Themed Urns for Ashes

In Florida, a young lady wanted the Medium Siesta Key urn for her mom, who died on Christmas day in 2021 from complications shortly after receiving a booster (according to her daughter). It was especially painful for the daughters as they could not be with their mom, as both the girls had covid.

An informal memorial service was held by the pool later in January with food and drinks, followed by an ash scattering ceremony at the beach. Guests had strict instructions to wear bright colors, absolutely NO BLACK.

American Made Butterfly Adult Urn

Meanwhile, in North Carolina a customer was very clear that she wanted an American artist created urn for her ashes. She ordered the Raku Butterfly Pottery Urn and sent this note:

“This urn is for me when I pass and I am presently still very much alive! Also, my body will go to a Medical School for teaching with return of my cremains once they are finished. They may keep the cadaver 2 weeks to 2 years at which time they shall cremate the body and return it to my family. I just wished to select my own urn since it shall be the receptacle of my cremains. I have done pottery in my life and love this piece and the placement of the butterfly, symbol of eternal life.”

We were honored to be able to assist with a work of art created by an American master artist.

If you are still trying to decide, here’s another post we did on various types and styles of urns that our customers have purchased recently. It’s a difficult decision and if you have questions or need a little help, reach out.

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Types of Urns That Families Buy for Cremation

April 21, 2023 urngarden.com

When there are so many types of cremation urn to buy, families tell us all the time that it’s overwhelming when they have to shop for a cremation urn. Nerves are shattered, they are emotional, and let’s get real….no one wants to shop for an urn. After shopping around and seeing all the styles that are available to buy, they know it when they see it. Added complications are when you are dealing with a committee and you have to run the choice by other family members and get everyone to agree.

Sometimes though, the family has a vision, and that makes it easier. Here’s a few examples of recent interactions and the type of urns that they bought.

Santa Rosa Beach Urn

Mom and Dad were living my dream of being a snow bird. For 20 years they spent winters from November to April at the same resort in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida. Mom’s health was poor and they were not able to go this year. Instead, they planned for an Easter brunch with family.

Mother fixed lunch and then completed addressing 20 Easter cards with a personal message for friends and family, And then? She died. Everyone knew she was ill, but it was so sudden, her husband and children were shocked.

Her son called after searching for “cremation vase beach”, he found the Santa Rosa Beach urn that was perfect for his mother. The problem was, he had a tight spot in a niche at the columbarium that he thought this urn might be too tall for. It was.

The good news is that we had the same style in a box (Salt Life) that he could order, get it personalized and delivered in time for his mother’s memorial service.

Raku Dragonfly Ceramic Urn

A client in California called after her mom passed away looking for a funeral urn that would be creative and unique, like her artist mother. Another requirement was that the urn had to be American made.

She chose the Raku Dragonfly Urn, made in the USA and signed by the artist. She was willing to wait a few weeks to get the urn produced. The husband and wife team that make the urns have a busy small business creating handmade memorials that are worth waiting for.

Madonna and Child Urn for Ashes

An Arizona customer is off to a bad start in 2023 after losing his mom after caring for her for the last several years in his home. He described his mom as a loving, church going lady.

His father has been diagnosed with dementia and had to be placed in memory care and that was not going well. Prior to being placed in a facility, his dad was hard to handle and even though being told by his doctor and family that he could no longer drive, he continued, causing a lot of stress and anxiety for his grown children. I could hear the fatigue in his voice.

Sky Blue Cultured Marble and Walnut Celtic Cross Box for Ashes

Two pilots that recently died, one on the job and the other was retired.

The widow picked the Sky Blue Cultured Marble urn because it reminded her of clouds, engraved with her husbands name in silver.

The son of the retired pilot chose a hand rubbed walnut box for ashes with the Celtic Cross on top, he also had it personalized. We rushed production on this one, but once we got it on the truck for transit, things went sideways with UPS and that is another story for another day.

Both of these urns were created by American artists.

Biodegradable Memento Urn for Water

Miami Beach customer bought the Memento Urn a year ago. The biodegradables have a stable shelf life if stored properly. He is just now getting around to having the memorial service, but discovered he could not find the box that the urn came in that had the instructions for filling or the water soluble bag and glue.

After his call for help, we were able to email instructions and help him source the other items needed to complete the process and get him ready to disperse the ashes.

The Memento is good for families that want a clean green funeral service and despite it’s unusual football shape, it comes in several colors and is ideal for a water or earth burial.

Depending on your needs, your vision, your loved one’s personality, there are many color, shapes and sizes of cremation urns. We can help you through it.

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