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59th Floor

September 11, 2008 urngarden.com

Bookmark Tilly’s Story to read when you need to be inspired after a “bad day” at the office.

Smart girl, that Tilly.

Tilly’s Location: 59th Floor office, center of South Tower’s west side:

A horrific boom resounded throughout the office, so loud that it reminded me of a supersonic jet screaming right next to the window, only 10 times louder. The building shook so severely that I had to grab the desk to keep my footing! Instantly, I spun around and ran into my boss office to look out the window facing west into New Jersey. Stepping up on the air conditioning vent, I pressed my face and body against the window (not the smartest move, but it gave me a perspective on how severe the situation was). I saw monumental amounts of debris blowing by and raining down everywhere: chunks of burning metal, papers, desks — and bodies.

I could not believe what I was seeing.

Although we had a good evacuation procedure in place, I was not going to wait for it to be dictated to me. I grabbed my backpack, then a frightened Karen, and stressed in a loud, forceful manor laced with foul language (using everything in the book and then some!) that everyone needed to move now! I didn’t know at that moment what had occurred, but I knew that we were all in grave trouble, and that our best course of action was to be as close to the ground as we could go…

59 Flights of Stairs:

I like the way this girl thinks:

When we reached the 38th floor, the now controversial P.A. announcement was issued that we should either return to our floor or exit onto the floor where we were, but to stay in the building because the falling debris made it unsafe to be outside, and our South Tower was not yet secure. No one going down in the stairwell stopped…

It took me exactly 17 minutes to get down 59 flights of stairs because eventually it turned out to be the time difference between the two planes hitting each tower.

And that’s just a quick trip to the lobby…..

Definitely a story to be archived.

Today’s tip for better living: Layer your clothing.

Filed Under: Cube World, mental health, obituaries Tagged With: 9-11, terrorism, Tilly's Story, twin towers

Permanent Privacy-Celebrity Unmarked Graves

September 10, 2008 urngarden.com

The Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery in Westwood, California is full of dead celebrities, but surprisingly, several stars are buried in unmarked graves.

Frank Zappa died from prostate cancer in 1993 and is located in Westwood Memorial park Section D, plot #100. Zappa was innovative and provocative musician, who later in life was an outspoken critic in the 1980’s fight against labeling music recordings with warning stickers about the lyrics. He was very vocal about the implications of censorship. 

memorial garden stones

George C. Scott, University of Missouri graduate, former marine, and brilliant actor died on September 22, 1999 at the age of 71 from a ruptured abdominal aortic aneurysm and is buried in an unmarked grave next to Walter Mattheau. Musing upon fame and death, Scott said, “Funny, isn’t it? One minute you’re standing in the wings. Next minute, you’re wearing them.”

Find a Grave has a good overview and images of George C. Scott’s plot. 

It’s surprising that such a great actor would rest in an unmarked grave, but George was known to be unpredictable on set and declined appearances at the Academy Awards, which he referred to the ceremony as a “two hour meat parade.”

Roy Orbison died in 1988 from a heart attack at his mothers house, and is located at plot #97, unmarked, also in Westwood. Orbison was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, and in addition to his success, he also knew tragedy up close and personal. He was widowed early in his first marriage when his wife was killed in a motorcycle crash, and then two years later lost two of his sons, when they died in a house fire. 

Pierce Brothers Westwood Cemetery is star studded for sure, Marilyn Monroe’s crypt is the most visited, but Don Knotts, Mel Torme, Farah Fawcett, Dean Martin, Hugh Heffner, Merv Griffin, and so many more. It’s tricky to find, tucked in and overshadowed by tall office buildings. From the Final Taxi blog: 

We took I-10 to Wilshire Blvd. and went up two blocks to Glendon. After turning right and going about two blocks it dead ended and we thought we were lost but on going back we saw what looked like an alley between the overshadowing buildings. There was a small iron gate with the Pierce Brothers Memorial Park sign on it. Suddenly we were in a small park with beautiful trees and flowers. It was like finding a small oasis in the middle of the city.

Pierce Brothers is a small cemetery which is hidden between office buildings on one side, and housing on the other. It is rather small, about 2 acres in size, but don’t let that fool you. There are many plot, mausoleums, and memorial plaques inside that small area.

Florence Lawrence

Florence Lawrence

Florence Lawrence, who appeared in almost 300 films and is considered to be Hollywood’s first movie star, rested in an unmarked grave at Hollywood Forever Cemetery for decades before actor Roddy McDowell purchased a marker for her grave. She was severely burned in a studio fire in 1915 while trying to rescue a fellow performer. After she recovered from her injuries, work was harder to find. Lawrence killed herself in 1938 by taking a dose of poison.

Carter Braxton a founding father of the United States of America. Braxton was 39 when he reluctantly signed the Declaration of Independence. He was a wealthy planter and businessman who straddled two sides of the conflict, as a sympathizer for Britian, and was entangled in business affairs with the British. However, Braxton didn’t care for the Crown picking his pockets. Not only was he were his fields fertile, he also had 18 children.

Eventually, other patriotic rebels twisted his arm and he signed the Declaration and even helped to fund supplies for American troops during the war. His business dealings with the Brits went up in smoke, his plantations were attacked (his home still stands) and the money that he loaned to the US Government was never repaid. He died a broke man and buried in an unmarked grave in Virgina.

 

Memorial Stone
Memorial Stone

It’s never too late to plant a tree or place a personalized garden stone in your loved one’s honor. Even if you are scattering ashes, adding a discreet memorial stone and creating a sacred space to remember can be beneficial for the survivors.

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Sources:

Find A Grave , George C Scott

Final Taxi, visit to Westwood Cemetery

Find A Grave, Roy Orbison

Filed Under: ash scattering, cremation, Memorial Service Ideas, obituaries Tagged With: Florence Lawrence, Frank Zappa, George C. Scott, memorial stone, memorial stones, Roy Orbison, scattering ashes, unmarked graves

Secrets Revealed in the Garden

September 8, 2008 urngarden.com

Every year about this time the spiders get active in the garden. Big bulbous garden spiders with stripedy legs. They work hard and fast to spin out some striking web designs. Always on a main thouroughfare through the garden. Have you ever walked face first into a spider web?

Never mind that, after frantically making sure I didn’t have spiders in my hair, I settled in and had a breakthrough regarding a problem of my own web design that’s been plaguing me for months! Eureka!

There’s a narrow window now from 7:30-7:45 PM that is truely golden. If you get a chance to step out, DO.

And fade.

Filed Under: art, Confessions, mental health Tagged With: garden spiders, spider webs, web design

Let’s Talk About Your Colon

September 8, 2008 urngarden.com

Spotted at the gym:

Filed Under: Confessions, Cube World, Fitness, Sports Tagged With: Fitness, health, Senior Fitness, senior health

Sunday Pet Show

September 7, 2008 urngarden.com

Beautiful markings on the old man. More handsome than ever.

Sweet and loving. My Rock.

This cat lives next door, but hangs at my place. In the birdbath, wet or dry.

Right after taking a shit in my driveway.

One of the neighbors accidentally shot this cat’s eye out a few years ago.

Filed Under: Confessions, Memorial Service Ideas, mental health, Pets Tagged With: cat blogging, cat urn, pet urn, Pets

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