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How NOT to Scatter Ashes

April 1, 2014 urngarden.com

scattering ashes
scattering ashes

In 2013, a plastic bag with human ashes washed up on a South Florida shoreline. The unidentified remains were presumably scattered at sea but were disposed of in a fashion not normally associated with burial at sea. Instead, the non-biodegradable plastic bag in which they were stored kept the cremains in tact instead of being dispersed. Unfortunately, this seems to happen more often than not when families take it upon themselves to scatter their loved one’s ashes without proper instruction from a funeral director or crematory operator.

Why Water Burial?
Scattering a loved one’s ashes is becoming more commonplace in today’s society as families dismiss the concept that ground burial is the only option to consider when a person dies. As long as it’s allowed by federal, state and local laws, you can scatter your loved one’s remains in a variety of venues including a garden, under a favorite tree or shrub or even over his or her favorite ball field.

Scattering ashes over water is also quite typical these days. Water enthusiasts may prefer to have the cremains dispersed in the ocean or nearby lake. While this may be a simple way to scatter the ashes, many who do this believe the concept that life began in the sea so it’s best to return that life back. This is not only a humbling way to pay tribute to a deceased friend or family member, but it is also an environmentally friendly alternative to traditional ground burials.

A much less expensive option, ash scattering over water is usually held after the funeral or memorial service and is typically attended by immediate friends and family members, a clergy member and the vessel captain. Remaining friends and family can opt to view the scattering ceremony from the shore.

A classic example of how NOT to scatter ashes can be found in what we will refer to as the Lebowski method:

Biodegradable Scattering or Water Urns
If you are considering scattering or burying your loved one’s ashes in water, there are two types of cremation urns that should be used. You want a container that is easy to open when you are getting ready to scatter the ashes or an urn that is biodegradable should you decide to place the cremated remains in the water.

urn for scattering ashes over water
Journey Sea Burial Urn

These types urns typically float for a brief period time and will sink gracefully. They come in a variety of styles from tubes and sea shells to Grecian urns and balls of sand. Because they are biodegradable, they are typically made from recycled paper, sand, gelatin and rock salt.

Rock Salt Urn for Ashes
Rock Salt Urn for Ashes

Federal Rules and Regulations for Scattering Cremated Ashes
The Environmental Protection Agency oversees the federal rules on disposing of cremated remains. Individual states have their own regulations but often use the EPA rules as guidelines.

Under the EPA’s Clean Water Act, the ashes must be scattered at least three nautical miles from land and can only be done by boat or air. If you are using a non-biodegradable container, it must be disposed of separately and not placed in the water at all. Cremated remains are not allowed to be scattered at beaches or wading pools by water. Inland water burials require the applicable state permits.

All water burials must be reported in writing to the EPA within 30 days. Decomposable wreaths and flowers may be placed in the water at the time of ceremony.

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Choosing a Cremation Urn to Create a Memorial with Meaning

January 28, 2014 urngarden.com

As we race to the finish line of January, it’s been a cold cruel month.  On top of harsh weather, we’re collecting the stories that our customers share. How they deal with not only the chilling temperatures but try to find the light during a dark day. Sometimes the tales are tragic, others are inspirational and filled with hope.

We’ll start with the lady who commissioned a bronze eagle urn for her son. She chose the Spirit of America Bronze Eagle Urn for three reasons:  she wanted the best,  she wanted an urn that was made in the USA, but the biggest reason she chose this urn was because he always told his mother that she was the wind beneath his wings.

Bronze eagle cremation urn

The young bride, mid 20’s, who married her love in October of 2013. Newlyweds. Still on their honeymoon. In late January, just three months after the wedding she was planning a funeral and buying a cremation urn for her late husband. He ended his young life. It’s so confusing. The family is devastated. How do we understand this?

red gold adult cremation urn for ashes

And finally, the Asian family in New York who wanted a green marble urn to not only honor their loved one, but also celebrate the Chinese New Year. They were very specific and wanted genuine marble, not cultured or synthetic, preferably quarried in Asia. It had to be green to symbolize new life and good fortune. We discussed the properties of marble and the natural veining that occurs, she understood but preferred to have an urn with white veining and no black if at all possible as they associated the color black with darkness and illegal behaviors.Marble Cremation UrnSo far, it’s shaping up to be an interesting year and as always, we rely on our clients to guide us in creating memorials that matter.

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Urn Garden Clients Are the Best Teachers

September 7, 2013 urngarden.com

Our clients are our guide as they navigate through difficult journeys. We learn that sometimes it takes a while to find the answers. They teach us about what families are doing to create personal memorials for loved ones and can change with the season. Despite snowy and turbulent spring days families planned tree dedications and small garden memorials, knowing that sunshine and warmer weather would come and light the darkness. A dogwood tree and a small marker for one family, a group of coworkers collected funds to purchase a personalized stone as a tribute to an office mate and will place it in the courtyard.

In addition to multiple pieces of jewelry, one of our families bought several glass vials to be filled with a small amount of ashes because they wanted to hang them from the rear view mirror of their cars. This family was located in the deep south and the funeral director said cremation jewelry was a popular option for families, but displaying the vials in the car was a new idea to her as well.

This summer, roses, hummingbirds, and butterflies have been popular themes that bring comfort and remind us of the season. When Urn Garden first started, choices in urn styles were pretty limited for families, but in the last couple of years there has been an explosion of creativity in the market, more competition and better prices. This creates an advantage for the families, but also can be overwhelming when trying to make a decision during a difficult time. We try to keep it simple by offering the styles that families want and not bombarding them with every urn available. If they want a particular style and it’s not on the site, we’ll try to procure it.

We’re deeply grateful for the opportunity to serve our clients and help them create affordable loving memorials and the lessons they teach us every day.

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Urns in Every Color of the Rainbow

August 19, 2013 urngarden.com

pink purple urns for ashes

We’ve talked about the power of the rainbow, the awe inspiring affect the prism can have after a devastating storm. The colors of the rainbow can actually influence our mood and can be applied to everyday life when choosing paint for the home, office, your car, or even when planning a funeral.

purple blue copper cremation urn human

In the modern day, we’re moving away from the dark colors that used to signify death. Now, there are urns in every color of the rainbow.

The Ombre cremation urn pictured above comes in both an adult and medium size, as well as heart shape and is even more beautiful in person with deep shades of blue, purple, orange and copper that subtlety transition into the next shade. 
Rainbow box for ashes

We have clients tell us that until they started shopping online for a cremation urn, they had no idea there were so many styles and choices.  It can be a bit overwhelming. Narrow your choices down to a favorite color, that will make it easier. Also think about where the urn is going to end up. Are you keeping it at home, planning a burial or scattering some of the ashes? It helps if you have a plan, but if you don’t, the answers will come.

Here’s a handy guide for choosing a color:

Violet and Purple Funeral Urns:

A favorite color of creative minds and stimulates the imagination. Shades range from deep dark purple to lighter lavender.

purple sugar plum cremation urn for ashes

Purple Mother of Pearl Adult Cremation Urn

Blue Urns for Ashes:

The color of blue has calming and relaxing properties, but also could symbolize a broken heart (feeling blue), beautiful blue eyes, or a March, September, or December birthday, as those months have a blue birth stone in common. Colors range from navy and turquoise, to indigo and azure.

beautiful blue cremation urn human


Ocean Wave keepsake urn

forget me not cremation urn for ashes

Green Memorial Urns:

Peaceful and comforting. Rich shades of deep emerald, inset with glowing mother of pearl. Woodsy camo keepsakes and nature themes with roses, hummingbirds, and turtles.

sage green funeral urn

camo heart cremation urn for ashesgreen shamrock mother of pearl cremation urn for ashes

Orange and Yellow Urn for Ashes:

Sunny and energetic these colors are a natural upper and boosts confidence. In the urn world, shades of gold and copper are common as well as flashes of vibrant color in brilliant blown glass.

Yellow Cremation Urn for Ashes

small butterfly urn for ashes

orange metal urn for ashes adult
orange metal cremation urn for ashes adult

Red and Pink Cremation Urns:

The most passionate and powerful of colors, the red rose is ultimate symbol of love in the language of flowers. Dark shades of ruby, lipstick red, and rosy shades of pink are pretty and popular with our families.

red gold adult cremation urn for ashes

Ruby Rose Cremation Urn

pink cremation urn for ashes

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Burial Benefits for Veterans

July 11, 2013 urngarden.com

flag case for veterans

Retired or honorary discharged members of the U.S. Armed Forces and their immediate families may be eligible to receive some benefits and financial support to cover some funeral and burial costs.

Veterans, their spouses and dependents can be buried for free in a national cemetery. The deceased person receives a plot, burial flag, government headstone, opening and closing of the grave, care of the site and a Presidential Memorial Certificate. If the veteran was cremated, he or she also receives the same benefits. There are 131 national cemeteries in the United States and 33 soldier’s lots and monument sites, which are similar to national cemeteries.

Other funeral and burial benefits afforded to veterans include:

 

  • $300 reimbursement for veterans receiving a VA disability benefit or pension.
  •  $300 interment-plot allowance for the veteran who is not buried in a national cemetery, but who died at a VA hospital or healthcare facility, or who received VA disability benefits or pension.
  • $2,000 burial plot allowance if the veteran died from a service-related injury or during active duty.
  •  A U.S. flag
  •  A grave marker or headstone
  •  Transportation reimbursement if the veteran died at a VA healthcare facility or hospital

There is also various types of death benefits and services offered to surviving spouses and dependents by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs. They include compensation, survivors’ pension, educational assistance, home loans, counseling, commissary privileges and fiduciary services.

It’s important to sign up for these benefits and allowances as soon as possible after the veteran’s death. Most of the forms are available online and assistance is available by calling (800) 827-1000.

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