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Rich Pets

September 22, 2008 urngarden.com

Leona Helmsley cut her grandkids from her will but left her dog millions

“Trouble”, Leona’s snowy white toy Maltese terrier will live out the rest of her years in style. In death, she will be reunited with her owner in the Helmsley Mausoleum.

New York Skyline on Helmsley Crypt
New York Skyline on Helmsley Crypt
Helmsley Mausoleum, Sleepy Hollow Cemetery
Helmsley Mausoleum, Sleepy Hollow Cemetery

Egyptians often buried cats with their owners. And Florida recently passed legislation allowing pets to be buried with their owners.

For the royally pampered pooch, our latest pet urn in the Egyptian Urn Collection.

This urn is hand painted ceramic, vivid colors and features the wings of Isis. This urn will accommodate pets weighing up to 50 pounds.

Leona Image: Splash News

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Tara’s Funeral and Cremation

September 18, 2008 urngarden.com

Claire Rudholm

My friend Kristen sent me the beautiful story of Claire Rudholm, also known as Tara, who passed away in 2004. After a stage-4 cancer diagnosis she was given ‘weeks to months’ to live, she was only 33. Tara expressed a desire to return to southern India to the Sivananda ashram where she had lived and worked as a karma yogi. She requested a full traditional Hindu cremation, and that her remains be spread along the holy Ganges river. Through email and snapshots, Tara’s friends documented the 5- 1/2 weeks in the ashram, her death, cremation, and a little bit about the ceremonies that followed. It’s a very touching and beautiful send-off.

Taras Last Journey
Tara's Last Journey

Filed Under: ash scattering, cremation, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, obituaries Tagged With: Claire Rudholm, cremation ceremony, Hindu Cremation, Hindu funeral, spreading ashes

Friend, Freedom Fighter and a High Lama

September 16, 2008 urngarden.com

Wheel of Life
Wheel of Life

Bloomington, IN.

Thubten J. Norbu, a former Indiana University professor and the oldest brother of the Dalai Lama, died Sept. 9, 2008 in Bloomington, Indiana.

Norbu was regarded as a reincarnated saint. As mourners filed into his room dropping blue,yellow, and white silk blessing scarves at his feet, Norbu was positioned upright in his bed, seated in the lotus position and adorned with an ornate Buddhist head dress. Amid a fog of incense, eight robed monks sat along a wall chanting Tibetan prayers, clanging cymbals and ringing bells — all aimed at helping him along his journey to rebirth.

Thubten J. Norbu’s cremation Thursday, Sept. 11 was the first of its kind in the state of Indiana after getting approval from Gov. Mitch Daniels. Indiana Law requires that cremation be preformed by a licensed crematory, but Gov. Mitch Daniels gave the family authorization to build a funeral pyre to perform this traditional ceremony.

Workers in Bloomington prepared the pyre for Norbu’s cremation
Workers in Bloomington prepared the pyre for Norbu’s cremation

Norbu’s passing has prompted prayer vigils in Tibet, India, Russia, Mongolia and Europe, among other places. In Dharamsala, India, the Tibetan government-in-exile shut down the day the news of his death was announced.

The family plans to use the ashes of Thubten J. Norbu to create statues the family can use as remembrance.

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Filed Under: ash scattering, cremation, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, obituaries Tagged With: Buddhist funeral, Indiana Law, Thubten J. Norbu

Consumer Corner

September 15, 2008 urngarden.com

Missouri Official State Bird: Native Blue Bird
Official Missouri State Bird: Native Blue Bird

A new Missouri law gives you more control over what is done with your body after your death. Do you want to be buried, cremated, body donated to science? The authority to make this decision is known in legalese as “right of sepulcher.”

A DPA, or agent, is someone you name in a legal document to make medical decisions for you if can’t speak for yourself. Under this new state law, the DPA has one additional power: right of sepulcher.

In the past, next-of-kin had the final say on this issue. Previously, if you chose cremation, your family could overrule you AND your DPA and choose something else. But now your DPA will have the final say – so be sure to specify your final wishes to your DPA.

Continue reading about End of Life Choices for Missouri Residents.

Filed Under: cremation, funeral service, Memorial Service Ideas, organ donation Tagged With: Attorney Jay Nixon, cremation in missouri, Durable Power of Attorney, Missouri End of Life choices, right of sepulcher

Permanent Privacy-Celebrity Unmarked Graves

September 10, 2008 urngarden.com

The Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery in Westwood, California is full of dead celebrities, but surprisingly, several stars are buried in unmarked graves.

Frank Zappa died from prostate cancer in 1993 and is located in Westwood Memorial park Section D, plot #100. Zappa was innovative and provocative musician, who later in life was an outspoken critic in the 1980’s fight against labeling music recordings with warning stickers about the lyrics. He was very vocal about the implications of censorship. 

memorial garden stones

George C. Scott, University of Missouri graduate, former marine, and brilliant actor died on September 22, 1999 at the age of 71 from a ruptured abdominal aortic aneurysm and is buried in an unmarked grave next to Walter Mattheau. Musing upon fame and death, Scott said, “Funny, isn’t it? One minute you’re standing in the wings. Next minute, you’re wearing them.”

Find a Grave has a good overview and images of George C. Scott’s plot. 

It’s surprising that such a great actor would rest in an unmarked grave, but George was known to be unpredictable on set and declined appearances at the Academy Awards, which he referred to the ceremony as a “two hour meat parade.”

Roy Orbison died in 1988 from a heart attack at his mothers house, and is located at plot #97, unmarked, also in Westwood. Orbison was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, and in addition to his success, he also knew tragedy up close and personal. He was widowed early in his first marriage when his wife was killed in a motorcycle crash, and then two years later lost two of his sons, when they died in a house fire. 

Pierce Brothers Westwood Cemetery is star studded for sure, Marilyn Monroe’s crypt is the most visited, but Don Knotts, Mel Torme, Farah Fawcett, Dean Martin, Hugh Heffner, Merv Griffin, and so many more. It’s tricky to find, tucked in and overshadowed by tall office buildings. From the Final Taxi blog: 

We took I-10 to Wilshire Blvd. and went up two blocks to Glendon. After turning right and going about two blocks it dead ended and we thought we were lost but on going back we saw what looked like an alley between the overshadowing buildings. There was a small iron gate with the Pierce Brothers Memorial Park sign on it. Suddenly we were in a small park with beautiful trees and flowers. It was like finding a small oasis in the middle of the city.

Pierce Brothers is a small cemetery which is hidden between office buildings on one side, and housing on the other. It is rather small, about 2 acres in size, but don’t let that fool you. There are many plot, mausoleums, and memorial plaques inside that small area.

Florence Lawrence

Florence Lawrence

Florence Lawrence, who appeared in almost 300 films and is considered to be Hollywood’s first movie star, rested in an unmarked grave at Hollywood Forever Cemetery for decades before actor Roddy McDowell purchased a marker for her grave. She was severely burned in a studio fire in 1915 while trying to rescue a fellow performer. After she recovered from her injuries, work was harder to find. Lawrence killed herself in 1938 by taking a dose of poison.

Carter Braxton a founding father of the United States of America. Braxton was 39 when he reluctantly signed the Declaration of Independence. He was a wealthy planter and businessman who straddled two sides of the conflict, as a sympathizer for Britian, and was entangled in business affairs with the British. However, Braxton didn’t care for the Crown picking his pockets. Not only was he were his fields fertile, he also had 18 children.

Eventually, other patriotic rebels twisted his arm and he signed the Declaration and even helped to fund supplies for American troops during the war. His business dealings with the Brits went up in smoke, his plantations were attacked (his home still stands) and the money that he loaned to the US Government was never repaid. He died a broke man and buried in an unmarked grave in Virgina.

 

Memorial Stone
Memorial Stone

It’s never too late to plant a tree or place a personalized garden stone in your loved one’s honor. Even if you are scattering ashes, adding a discreet memorial stone and creating a sacred space to remember can be beneficial for the survivors.

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Sources:

Find A Grave , George C Scott

Final Taxi, visit to Westwood Cemetery

Find A Grave, Roy Orbison

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