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A New Memorial Service Tradition: Urn Wreaths

A big part of my life involves thinking about the historical roots of our modern funeral practices. Lately, the focus has been on urn wreaths, which is fast becoming a memorial service tradition. Naturally, my mind wandered into the past – to the Victorians first – and then further back to the laurel and olive wreaths of the Greeks and Romans. The Symbolism of the Wreath Venture back a few thousand years and you’ll discover the essence of laurel, myrtle and olive branch wreaths includes the … [Read more...] about A New Memorial Service Tradition: Urn Wreaths

Don’t Dismiss the Healing Power of Funeral Flowers

Sadly, funerals have been on my itinerary more frequently the last couple of years. One disturbing trend that's clear and often noted in the obituary is the phrase "in lieu of flowers".... and I must say, I think it's misguided. There's nothing wrong with fundraising for the family or a favorite charity in place of the flowers, but when possible it's a good idea to add floral arrangements to the service and here's why. Flowers Can Help Heal the Heart Lately, the funerals we've attended … [Read more...] about Don’t Dismiss the Healing Power of Funeral Flowers

Urn Garden Identifies 10 Funeral Flowers and What They Mean

Flowers have the ability to convey a certain significance that words, cards, or gifts can not. That sentiment is perhaps elevated when it comes to a funeral. Knowing the importance behind such a gesture can make choosing a flower for such an occasion an overwhelming process. But it doesn’t have to be; we at Urn Garden explain. The thing to keep in mind is that you want the flower to reflect the relationship you had with the person. Was the deceased the love of your life? A good friend? … [Read more...] about Urn Garden Identifies 10 Funeral Flowers and What They Mean

No Funeral No Flowers

Inspiration comes from Texas and New Mexico. First up: Conroe, TX, wife and daughters who lost hub and daddy. 67, retired educator. Four year battle with cancer, married for over 40 years. Even during his illness, they never discussed THE END. No will. No final arrangements. Until 2007. No church service, no sad songs. Friends and family gathered on his birthday for a memorial celebration on their property which adjoins a park. Food, friends, pictures and memories. The girls picked out … [Read more...] about No Funeral No Flowers