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True Meaning of Memorial Day

May 23, 2013 urngarden.com

vintage memorial day postcardSo many Americans celebrate Memorial Day, but how many actually understand what the holiday means? Sure, it’s a time to celebrate the beginning of summer and the end of the school year. However, it’s really a time to remember, honor and pay tribute to those members of the U.S. Armed Forces who died in combat during a war.

Here’s a little history lesson. Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day in honor of the men who died during the Civil War. However, by the 1860s, since various towns across the country held their own memorial ceremonies, it became obvious to dedicate one day out of the year to this cause. So it became, as ordered by Gen. John Logan, that the first Memorial Day commemoration was held on May 30, 1868. At that time, flowers were placed on the graves of both Union and Confederate solders buried at Arlington National Cemetery.

It took about 20 years for the Northern states to recognize this holiday, and it wasn’t until after World War I ended that Southern states joined forces with their counterparts to celebrate Memorial Day together. It also became that this holiday was to honor all Americans who died fighting in any war. In 1971, Congress declared the final Monday in May as a national Memorial Day holiday. Some of the nation’s Southern states still memorialize Civil War solders in separate ceremonies.

Today, Memorial Day is celebrated in many ways. Drive by any cemetery, and you will see American flags adorning the graves of war veterans. Hometown parades pay tribute with patriotic music and marching bands. And then there’s National Moment of Remembrance. At 3 p.m. local time, everyone is asked to take a few minutes to honor those men and women who died in combat. What do you do to celebrate Memorial Day?

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Memorial Day Greetings 2010

May 28, 2010 urngarden.com

memorial day postcard

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Memorial Day Weekend 2009

May 23, 2009 urngarden.com

Remember what Memorial Day is really about.

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Vintage Memorial Day Postcard

May 22, 2009 urngarden.com

Be safe and have fun this weekend.

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In Loving Memory

May 26, 2008 urngarden.com

memorial day postcard

This is the first year that we did not decorate graves of our friends and family at the cemetery. Usually on Memorial Day, I take Etta out to the White Chapel Cemetery. Yesterday, I asked her if she felt guilty about not going. She said she didn’t. She’d just try to do better through the year.

This is also the first year in a long time that she didn’t go back to her home state of Oklahoma for her high-school reunion.

When we were younger, rain or shine, Memorial Day was always a big party, and we worked in the tradition of honoring the dead. Since the death of his mother, my husband has never wanted to go back. Since we’re not Keith Richards and we don’t party like we used to, Memorial Day is kind of quiet around here. It’s been stormy which has put a damper on some of the bar-b-cues. At least we missed the killer tornadoes. This morning’s trivia question on the local news was, “What was the original name of Memorial Day?” The anchors were stumped. They “knew it but couldn’t remember.”

I’ve known some older people that make a day of decorating the graves over the holiday. Picnics and tail gate parties at the cemetery. As we move away from this ritual, it feels so “Civil War”. But I do miss going, the cemetery is lovely, and White Chapel Memorial Garden has the Walk of Flags that is so moving.

White Chapel Memorial Gardens 2004

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