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Hillbilly Funeral Customs

March 12, 2008 urngarden.com

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More death and burial folklore from famous hillbilly folklorist Vance Randolph:

Time Stops: When a death finally occurs, one of the bereaved neighbors rises immediately and stops the clock. Everybody knows that if the clock should happen to stop of itself while a corpse is lying in the house, another member of the family would die within a year, and it’s best not to take no chances.

Reflections: The next thing to do is cover every mirror in the house with white cloths, which are not removed until after the funeral. This is done out of consideration for those who may come in to view the body, for it one of them should glimpse his own reflection in the house of death, it is believed that he will never live to see another summer.

“New Fangled Customs”: In some houses, immediately after a death occurs, the chairs are all turned up so that nobody can sit in them, and people who come into the presence of the dead are forced to stand. Randolph could never find the source of this belief and was told by one old-timer that it is a new-fangled custom, brought into the country by some outlanders about 1880.

Dirty Laundry: When a hillman dies all his bedding and articles of clothing are immediately hung on a line outdoors. People coming far down the road see this and know that the patient is dead. In predicting a sick man’s demise, I have heard people say “Poor Jim’s britches will be a-hangin out most any day now!”

Neighborhood Cleanup: The hillfolk have a veritable mania for washing dead bodies; the moment a death occurs the neighbors strip the corpse and begin to scrub it vigorously. A man may be dirty all his life, and in his last illness his body and bedding may be so foul that one can hardly stay in the cabin, but he goes to his grave clean. All of the work connected with a death- washing and dressing the body, is done by friends and neighbors. Not one of the near relatives of the deceased will have any part in these doings, except in the direst necessity.

Today’s tip: Perfect your yodel.

Filed Under: Memorial Service Ideas Tagged With: folklore, hillbilly funeral, hillbilly funeral customs

What’s That Smell?

March 13, 2007 urngarden.com

Greetings!

Free in the garden today! Excellent color and a hot cup of coffee!

I can see why ancient cultures worshiped the sun!

Speaking of inspirations and connections, we re-connected with a favorite teacher/guru last week who is always good for the mind, body, and spirit and wondered why we had drifted away. Well, time to get back on track….and breathe!

More folklore from the late Vance Randolph:

“When a sick man wants to know his true condition, he touches a bit of bread to his lips and throws it to a dog; if the dog won’t eat it, the man knows that he has a very short time to live.” Perhaps this is ancient wisdom, since modern studies indicate that dogs have the ability to detect terminal illnesses.

“If cocks crow, dogs howl or foxes bark unexpectedly near a sick room, the patient may die at any moment.”

“When a dog under the cabin, or on the front porch, howls four times and then stops, it is said that there will be a death in the house very soon. If a cat licks the door it is a sure sign that somebody in the house will die shortly. It’s a bad sign for a rooster to crow in the doorway, or crows seven times in front of the door without turning around, it mean that someone in the family is going to die soon, whether any of them are sick now or not.”

“A crowing hen will excite any group of backwoods people; I have seen a man spring up and fire his revolver wildly into a flock of chickens, killing several. Some people do not hesitate to eat a crowing hen, but this man would not allow one to be cooked in his house. “Throw it to the hogs, and if they won’t eat the damn thing, we’ll sell it to the tourists!”

“Whippoorwills seldom alight on buildings, but if one does come to rest on the roof of a house and gives it’s characteristic call, there will be a death in the neighborhood within 24 hours.” Same with any sort of bird rapping on a windowpane.

A bat in the cabin is even worse than a songbird, but a screech owl is worst of all. One cry from this bird, even if it is only in the dog run and not in the house proper, will upset almost any backwoods family. Mother will jump instantly to throw salt on the fire and children begin to tie knots in a string. Throwing a handful of salt or feathers on the fire will usually silence a screech owl outside the cabin, the smell seems to settle the bird. If there happens to be a sick man in the place, every effort is made to kill the owl, so that it’s body may be laid warm and bleeding on the patient’s chest.

Today’s Tip: Experience restorative yoga.

Filed Under: Confessions Tagged With: folklore, hillbilly funeral, Vance Randolph

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